wedding band

In jewish thinking the wedding band should be one solid piece of medal symbolizing your relationship as not having cracks and being complete. But my band is so tiny that I feel like a simple platinum band would look puny by itself, esp. if I were to wear it alone.

So I really like the channel bands with some diamonds going halfway around. We went to the jeweler the other day and the MR. liked this setting a lot, but I just felt like I really wanted something fun, so I went today to three different jewelers in the area: Charleston Alexander, Mervis Diamond Importers and Jared (where he got my ring). And to be totally honest, I'm happy with Jared. The other names are just snobby, and it's like Tiffany's your just buying their name and a stiff price!

So I believe the Jared McLean store has a much better selection. And I found this very cool weaved band that goes halfway around. AND I ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT. But then I go back to the jewish law and think is this ring too separate is it too glam jewelry? So the MR. and I will have to go back and compare the two styles we like most. I do like the channel setting too. They both make me look like I'll be married when just wearing the one ring. But the weaved ring is so fun and me. But once again in the back of my mind I want to make sure in the future I will still be happy with it...to be continued....